Fate’s Hand
Fate can touch us, move us along or put obstacles in our path. It can lift us up or knock us down.
For the most part we determine how to deal with fate when it reaches out its hand. We can brush it aside or grab it. Kiss it, shake it or slap it.
Fate is a tactic in the strategy of life.
System Humanity 
I would say, take Fate when it reaches out its hand, as union makes force
Fate sometimes comes with nasty surprises that we do well to avoid.